Amanda Taping Would I Be Able To Sue If A Ex Tape Were Distributed Without My Permission?

Would I be able to sue if a ex tape were distributed without my permission? - amanda taping

Well, I must help. I was very stupid and made a sex tape when she was 18, with a boy who was my boyfriend at the time. Unfortunately, I have to drink as a minor.
If he never distributed the tape (which is not my consent to do so) to ...
Number one: Can I sue the **** do not they?
And number two, would: They serve alcohol to a minor is accused of?
Your help is greatly appreciated by my stupidity.
Amanda --